This Long Distance Love Guide will give you some tips on how to survive a long distance relationship and how to make it a better relationship until you are able to be together.
Have you found yourself in a long distance love relationship either because you and your spouse have split up because of problems or because a job has relocated one of you and it is not possible to make the move
My husband and I found ourselves living in two different states. We needed and wanted to make our marriage work, so upon his arriving in his new state he searched for someone to help us with our relationship. We both didn’t want to give up after almost 10 years of marriage, but the way things were going, it could not stay the same and survive.
Counseling Helped with our long distance love relationship
We commenced going through a 6 week program of examining our previous relationship when we lived together in the same house. Every week on a certain day we committed to spending 2 hours working through our assignments and discussing the things that were wrong and where we had made mistakes. We talked on the phone every day. The one consistent thing we did was pray together before we hung up each night that we were on the phone. Even when the talks did not go as planned and we wanted to end the conversation.
Having a plan and a long distance love guide would have been helpful while we were rectifying our relationship. We fortunately had the guidance and written materials to go through from a Pastor and what he found and wrote when going through his own marital problem. Not everyone has the ability to find that person.
Problems you May Encounter while Apart and then briefly together
You may experience feelings of anxiousness, anticipation, joy, nervousness, etc. All of these different feelings may flood you before you see that special someone again. These are all expected and normal. The key is to keep them all in perspective. You may be building up your time together to a level that may be hard to achieve. But just remember that you are working together to a common goal. And having those feelings still there says that you long distance love relationship is something worth fighting for.
On the flip side you may feel so lonely or alone that you think about seeking companionship with someone in your city. (Not me)! But this is something others may have considered. Or maybe wishing you had not gotten emotionally attached (anything worth keeping is worth fighting for, especially if you both are on the same page). Or maybe even fight and bicker when you do get together and the time together has not been spent wisely. This last one has happened to me before. Then you wish you had just savored the time together and just enjoyed being together.
This long distance love guide teaches you to know how you will react to situations. That knowledge will help you deal with the little things that come up. In any relationship, long distance or married; each person brings something from their past to the current relationship. Arming yourself with the solution before the problem arises – will help make the time you have together more relaxed and special. This guide gives you ideas on how to deal with the problems that will come up.
Different Activities the Long Distance Love Guide suggest to keep you closer
I have found a website with 100 + things to do while in a long distance relationship; check it out by clicking on this link: https://www.lovingfromadistance.com/thingsforldrcouplestodo/. It suggest watching movies together at the same time, or sending virtual flowers. Or how about asking each other lots of questions to get to know each other better (or again). You can play a game together
If you are in a long distance relationship – you owe it to yourself and your significant other to try some of the ideas in this guide. I feel it is well worth your time, money and effort.
Speaking of effort, why not check out my amazing wine membership and trying this activity. Purchase a bottle of wine from the Napa and/or Sonoma Valley which these wines come from. Drawing a bubble bath with lots of great fragrances. Both of you sitting next to each other while sipping on a large glass of wine. Try it!!! I guarantee your long distance love relationship will not feel long distance any more!
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